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A Tosa resident since 1991, Christine walks the dog, raises kids, cooks but avoids housework, writes and reads, and works too much. A Quaker and The Aging Maven, she has been known to stand on both sides of the political and philosophic fence at the same time, which is very uncomfortable when you think about it. She writes about pretty much whatever stops in to visit her busy mind at the moment. One reader described her as "incredibly opinionated but not judgmental." That sounds like a good thing to strive for!

Memorial Day is about remembering our better nature

By Christine McLaughlin
Monday, May 26 2008, 09:15 PM

The terribleness and grandeur of young people going off in waves to fight is the stuff myths are made of. No wonder the rhetoric of war is timeless and nonspecific. No wonder each war seems to blend into the ones before and the ones after.

Today's speech may have been President Bush's best Memorial Day speech yet. He remembered that the day was not about a particular political agenda but about something bigger.

The names of these honored are known only to the Creator who delivered them home from the anguish of war -- but their valor is known to us all. It's the same valor that endured the stinging cold of Valley Forge. It is the same valor that planted the proud colors of a great nation on a mountaintop on Iwo Jima. It is the same valor that charged fearlessly through the assault of enemy fire from the mountains of Afghanistan to the deserts of Iraq. It is the valor that has defined the armed forces of the United States of America throughout our history.

Some of us remember that engagement in the war in Iraq bears no resemblance to the American Revolution or World War II. But we'll let that pass as we honor those who live and die with valor--or without it. It's only at a remove that we see the glory in death. Some of us don't see it even then.

On this Memorial Day, I stand before you as the Commander-in-Chief and try to tell you how proud I am at the sacrifice and service of the men and women who wear our uniform. They're an awesome bunch of people and the United States is blessed to have such citizens.

At this point, there was a standing ovation. One women even rose to shout "Whoo-hoo," so inspired was she by this stirring speech, according to the Orange County Register.

It's easy to get people going these days. One hundred and fourteen years ago, it took more. Oliver Wendall Holmes Jr. took seven pages of speechifying to inspire people:

But, nevertheless, the generation that carried on the war has been set apart by its experience. Through our great good fortune, in our youth our hearts were touched with fire. It was given to us to learn at the outset that life is a profound and passionate thing. While we are permitted to scorn nothing but indifference, and do not pretend to undervalue the worldly rewards of ambition, we have seen with our own eyes, beyond and above the gold fields, the snowy heights of honor, and it is for us to bear the report to those who come after us. But, above all, we have learned that whether a man accepts from Fortune her spade, and will look downward and dig, or from Aspiration her axe and cord, and will scale the ice, the one and only success which it is his to command is to bring to his work a mighty heart.

(Note the source of the title of the Mariane Pearl book/Angelina Jolie movie A Mighty Heart.)

I ask no apology of you who think it's unfair to point out the President's communication limitations. If you're the Leader of the Free World and Commander in Chief, you ought to be able to stick with the speech writer's art and rise above "awesome bunch." You might want to point out that life should be a spirited and passionate activity for all of us, not only the soldiers among us.

After the speech, Bush met with important advisors from a recent trip to the Middle East: five NCAA head football coaches. Tommy Tuberville, Auburn University, had met a soldier  who'd lost part of his leg to a roadside bomb.

"I have kids their age and I'd like my kids to meet some of those people. Every one of them look you in the eye, shake your hand, tell them about their mission, what they're doing. ... Our college kids lead a pretty nice life and those kids are over there serving our country and just doing a great job," the Register reported.

Awesome, coach!

I wonder what Tuberville's kids would make of  Holmes' second famous Memorial Day speech in 1895:

In this snug, over-safe corner of the world we need (the message of living life for a purpose), that we may realize that our comfortable routine is no eternal necessity of things, but merely a little space of calm in the midst of the tempstuous untamed streaming of the world, and in order that we may be ready for danger. We need it in this time of individualist negations. . . revolting at discipline, loving fleshpots, and denying that anything is worthy of reverence--in order that we may remember all that buffoons forget. We need it everywhere and at all times. For high and dangerous action teaches us to believe as right beyond dispute things for which our doubting minds are slow to find words of proof. Out of heroism grows faith in the worth of heroism. The proof comes later, and even may never come.

Soldiers understand that. So should we all.

And not only for going to war. 



Comments

TosaGuy   

Not tied into your post other than the fact that it was Memorial Day.

So how many Tosans did the Memorial Day minimum of flying the American Flag on Memorial Day?  I have lived in Tosa for 10 years and have noticed a significant decrease of flying the flag on patriotic holidays.  Wonder why that is?  Are people too complacent?  Lazy?  Tuned out?  Ignorant of the day's meaning?   Or don't they fly it for other reasons (that if I mentioned would cause a storm of righteous indignation)?

Flying the flag on such a day is not about you and your beliefs (speaking to the broad audience here, not C. McL.), it's about honoring those who gave everything so you can have your beliefs.   Veterans don't ask for much, but seeing that tiny bit of appreciation is thanks enough.

May 27, 2008 8:51 AM

Christine McLaughlin   

And I thank you for your service, Tosaguy.

May 27, 2008 12:00 PM

Ray Py   

Christine--Maybe we should consider Memorial Day as somethng more than a day when we honor soldiers who have sacrificed their lives and think more about what they had sacrified their life for.

To me that would mean honoring our country's pride, prestige, heritage and history.

While a flag may an ideal way to express such feelings, so also could a family gathering, a traditional baseball game, a parade--even a speech delivered from a soapbox--be meaningful.

Perhaps our confusion over how we celebrate our country's honored past comes from the confusion of making a rather important occasion a third day of a three-day weekend to celebrate coming of summer.  

We honor our nation in segments(Independence Day, President's Day, Black History Month, Flag Day, Armed Forces Day etc.) But can't one day--and perhaps one day alone--be a true "memorial" that asks us all to remember pride, heritage, honor and history and not just those who have had to pay the supreme price?  

I tried to express al this in a small piece I posted last week on the community news post called the "Tallest Flagpole in Town."  I hope you might have seen it.

May 27, 2008 4:21 PM

Christine McLaughlin   

I hadn't seen it, Ray, but I looked it up in the archives and very much enjoyed reading it, as I do all that you write.

Couldn't agree more about remembering pride, heritage, honor and history. The tricky part is reading history as whole as possible and trying to figure out what honor means in that context.

For me, it's a solemn and reflective sort of day.

May 27, 2008 10:59 PM

Ray Py   

I think honor and history mean what YOU think it means.  No two people can scan a moment in time and arrive at exactly the same conclusion about its significance.  

I have known people in what is now an extended life that have found honor in lives--like crayons--that have gone far beyond the lines.  Many of these men and women deserve their place in history just like the soldiers we honored last weekend.  But too often, history will pass them by.

 While I never knew him personally, of course, one of my historical "heros" was a WPA artist called Myron Nutting who I learned about when I researched the beautiful murals displayed at my old high school in Wauwatosa.  

Myron was a rebel and he felt deeply about the injustice done to artists of his era.  He protested that injustice by refusing to sign art work that was done under government contract--including those art pieces in Wauwatosa.  Unsigned art work was alreadey a popular form of protest by European artists from whom Myron Nutting was taught.

Only by research was Myron's protest revealed and his story told.

But the many students who pass that work everyday and the teachers who work in the school, have very little understanding of what the artist was really saying in those beautiful pieces of mural art.    

May 28, 2008 9:48 AM

Christine McLaughlin   

I think people don't like to consider the way art forces us to see things differently and its inherent potential for political power. I'm not really familiar with those murals but I think I recall that they are about the nobility of working people. If so, that's an idea that seems to be uncomfortable again (or still)today.

Thanks for remaining stimulating and teaching us new things!

May 28, 2008 1:11 PM

Ray Py   

Not really.  In fact the theme of the murals is how higher education makes people work better.  One of the panels depicts a woman seated at a typewriter and often this arouses something in the students that shows women in menial work.  But in the 1930s, the typewriter was a technology that offered women a way into the working world and an opportunity to get out of the house.  

Nutting was a portrait painter and among his finest works are portraits of Irish author James Joyce and his family.  His portrait of Joyce hangs in the James Joyce Collection at Northwestern University.  

May 28, 2008 1:54 PM

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