This Just In...

Kevin,

Let's take all the histrionics/emotion/name-calling/stereo-typing out of this particular situation. I see three scenarios. If the city legally owns the building AND there is no written agreement, as repugnant as it may seem, they have the right to enforce a non-discrimination clause. If the city legally owns the building AND there is a written agreement for a one dollar a year lease in perpetuity, the Boys Scouts should take them to court. If the Boy Scouts legally own the building, they should tell the city to stick it.

If more people take the us vs. them out of life, maybe we could work together to find solutions instead of finding fault.

Rick, can you find one good thing to say about the Boy Scouts?

I bet not.

(Rick, when you send comments, you only have to hit "submit" once. Thanks!)

Here's another column with important background information:

www.philly.com/.../19382534.html

Kevin,

Sorry about the double entries. My fingertip mousepad is very sensitive.

I can say lots of good things about the Boy Scouts. They develop teamwork and confidence, a love of and respect for nature, a sense of community and caring for others, shall I go on? The thing I like about the Boy Scouts, Cub Scouts, Girl Scouts and Brownies is that they allow children to progress incrementally at their own pace towards their badges and awards with the rest of the group encouraging each other. The focus is on an individual's accomplishments. While there is inevitably some internal competition among some children about how many awards, that is not the goal, unless this is fostered by the adults. I say all this with the qualification that I was an Adventure Leader for four years and have seen this all first hand. I remained an Adventure Leader after the decision was made about banning gays. I am not gay. I happen to disagree with the decision but respect their right to make that decision.

The point I'm trying to make is that if everyone would settle down, on all sides of every issue, honestly listen to what others have to say, make your own point while respecting others, then we could spend more time finding workable solutions instead of finding fault.

Only the weak resort to violence to get their way, whether it's physical or verbal.

Fair enough, Rick.

But keep in mind, you raised the us vs. them point.

I think the city of Philly played that card first. The Scouts responded, and I'm glad they did, given the Supreme Court ruling on the Scouts.

Thanks for your work as an Adventure Leader and your sentiments about scouting.